09/09/2026
A dementia diagnosis can change many things for a family.
The way we communicate.
The support that is needed.
The decisions that must be made.
The responsibilities carried by those who love the person.
But the diagnosis does not change the person’s dignity.
After more than 30 years in healthcare, I have learned how important it is to keep seeing the person beyond the condition.
Their history still matters.
Their preferences still matter.
Their relationships still matter.
Their comfort, dignity, and sense of identity still matter.
As care needs change, families may need to make difficult decisions. Those decisions should be guided by appropriate professional advice, the person’s known wishes, and a commitment to preserving dignity.
We cannot always prevent the changes that come with illness.
But we can remain intentional about how we respond to them.
The diagnosis may change the care. It does not change the person’s worth.