06/27/2025
โ ๏ธ WARNING: do not read if youโre not ready for some raw, honest, tough love (that if followed, will supercharge your happiness and success!) ๐
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1. The person you talk to the most is yourself. If you learn how to speak kinder to yourself, life will magically get better โ I promise.
2. Your fear of disappointing people (aka people pleasing) is hurting you more than you realize. Learn how to be honest and direct with peopleโyouโll get used to it.
3. There is healthy conflict and unhealthy conflict. You probably saw a lot of unhealthy conflict growing up. Thatโs ok. Make today the day you start to learn about healthy conflict.
4. โTalk like a manโ is the worst communication advice for women. Talk like yourself. Be articulate, direct, and concise.
5. Humor is a super weapon thatโs grossly underutilized. Itโs usually not that serious. Everythingโs made up. Smile!
6. Half of your โbutsโ should be โandsโ. Ex: you like working here AND (not but) you need a raise. Small difference, huge impact.
7. They might be micromanaging you because theyโre a bad bossโฆ but they also *might* be micromanaging you because youโre a bad employee. Either way, have a conversation about itโtoday.
8. Your unregulated nervous system is why you get flustered at work. Work on regulation and a million other issues will dissolve.
9. Youโre always seeking otherโs opinions because you donโt trust yourself. Look up to yourself. You know what to do.
10. Being loud doesnโt mean youโre right and being super serious doesnโt mean youโre smart.
11. When in doubt, err on the side of overcommunication. However, if you can ask Google, donโt ask someone else.
12. Apologize. Then, ONLY if it can alleviate the hurt, add context. Dont make excuses.
You got this ๐๐ผ
