04/03/2026
There's one thing I've noticed about every senior/VP/exec level search we run.
Candidates are generally much kinder, more respectful, and genuinely appreciative of the recruiting call - EVEN if they are not interested.
I get far less rude comments and hangups at the sr. + level than I do mid career..
Honestly, I don't think it's a coincidence.
Climbing the ladder is equally (if not more so) a function fo your people skills as it is technical ability.
They also understand the value of relationships, and how over the course of a career those relationships often come full circle (sometimes in reverse) more than once.
Also (to state the obvious) it's much harder to progress in your career if you refuse to hear out opportunities when they come knocking.
So to my early career folks: take the call, build the relationship, politely decline if you aren't interested.
You're 1000% more likely to be my first call for the next opportunity if you're kind.. don't forget you're playing the long game.