10/26/2026
People picture estate litigation as a fight over the will. A forged signature. A surprise heir. A deathbed change.
In my experience, fewer than 1 in 100 of these disputes are about the will itself.
Most of the fights happen after everyone agrees the will is valid. The fights are about the person carrying it out.
Here's what families fight about:
🔹Delay. The estate has been open for three years and nobody has received a dollar.
🔹Information. Beneficiaries don't know what the estate holds, what it earned, or what it spent.
🔹The family business. Who runs it, who gets a salary, and whether it should be sold.
🔹The house. Sold too cheap, sold to a relative, or not sold at all.
🔹Self-dealing. The executor bought an estate asset, hired a friend, or paid himself first.
🔹Fees. Executor commissions, attorney bills, and what they are paid from.
The will says who gets what. The executor decides when, how, and at what value. That's where the conflict lives.
If you're an executor or trustee, your decisions will be judged later, possibly by a court. Document them now.