Family Focus Counselling Consult

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FamilyFocus Counselling Consult (FFCC) was born out of a concern of helping young couples in the areas of dating and matchmaking, premarital relationships, marital counselling and advises.

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These warning signals are there to help you and if you are truthful, you may have felt them in your intuition. Don't be ...
16/09/2019

These warning signals are there to help you and if you are truthful, you may have felt them in your intuition.

Don't be afraid to flag a bad or destructive habit in your partner or date or love interest. If you face the truth, it will be better for you. It is either you are able to resolve it with them and go on to have a great relationship or it may just be thing that helps you escape a relationship that will eventually break your heart or ruin your life.

Most people who end up with failed relationships or marriages confess later that they saw the warnings signs but chose to ignore them.

Don't pretend as if you don't know, don't dismiss the warning signal; don't label the people who love you enough to point out the issues as 'haters'. Face the truth so that you won't become a casualty.

If you would like to make bookings for counseling with us at Family Focus, please call 0806 216 5609.

If you're in a relationship with someone who seems to have a personal timetable that doesn't include your opinion and is...
15/09/2019

If you're in a relationship with someone who seems to have a personal timetable that doesn't include your opinion and is rushing you to take things to "the next level", it’s a red flag.

If they are demanding a concrete commitment from you after a few weeks or few months of knowing each other, or are pressuring you to do things you're not ready for, you've got be alert. For example, if someone you just started dating is already demanding a wedding date without consideration for your desires or consent; you need to slow everything down. It is not a sign of love or passion.

Sometimes, people want to bully and rush you because they are selfish or they have an ulterior motive or because they have something to hide. They may not even love you.

If it seems that your partner or love interest is too nice - they always agreeing to everything you say, they never have...
14/09/2019

If it seems that your partner or love interest is too nice - they always agreeing to everything you say, they never have an opinion of their own, they are always trying to please as if they have no needs of their own, etc.- don't dismiss your intuition. Investigate it.

Sometimes, insecure, manipulative or needy people use this trick to draw unsuspecting and egoistic people in before they show their true colours. Don't be naïve.

Beware of that person who is trying to woo you or keep your attention you mainly with money and gifts. Of course, it is ...
13/09/2019

Beware of that person who is trying to woo you or keep your attention you mainly with money and gifts. Of course, it is a nice thing to give someone you like or love gifts but should not be the only thing and it should not be extreme.

Many times, it is a tactic of abusers and people with dark secrets to make you commit to them before you discover their dark side. Don’t accept gift in place of apologies or explanations; sometimes people who don’t want to change their bad habit give gifts to deflect attention.

Use your judgement; if the showers of gifts and money seems too good to be true, it probably is. Don't ignore your instincts and don't be carried away by greed.

Any form of abuse is unacceptable; whether it is verbal, emotional, psychological, financial or physical. Don't say it i...
12/09/2019

Any form of abuse is unacceptable; whether it is verbal, emotional, psychological, financial or physical. Don't say it is mild or that it only happens sometimes; abusive behaviour is known to escalate with time. This is more than a red flag, it is a warning light. Don't disregard it and end up in regret.

If you are in a relationship or you're planning to go into a relationship with someone and all the significant people in...
11/09/2019

If you are in a relationship or you're planning to go into a relationship with someone and all the significant people in your life don't seem to approve, please examine it carefully.
All those people may be wrong but you have to be very thorough to believe that they have misjudged your partner before you continue. Don't get defensive; rather ask them for their reasons. If they are flimsy, materialistic or status-based, it might not bother you but if it based on something they see in their character or heard about them, take it serious.

It is possible that you have developed a blind spot because you have feelings for this person. If the people you get along with disagree with you so sharply on something they know you care about, you need to give it a second thought.

That man or lady may look so good or charming but if they are irresponsible, going into relationship with them may end i...
10/09/2019

That man or lady may look so good or charming but if they are irresponsible, going into relationship with them may end in serious heartache.
If they are unpredictable, immature, unable to hold a job or manage their money, it's a serious red flag. If they have trouble with basic life skills, can't take care of themselves, can't manage their living space properly or are always borrowing money from you and others, you must think twice. If they have no plan for their lives, if a little crisis gets them overly disoriented or incapacitated or if they are still dependent when thy should be independent, be very cautious.

Dating or marrying an irresponsible man or woman is like hooking up with a big baby; that's not a good life

Be wary of that person who can’t seem to get along with anyone. They are always fighting with their colleagues, neighbou...
09/09/2019

Be wary of that person who can’t seem to get along with anyone. They are always fighting with their colleagues, neighbours, siblings and friends. If your discussions are often dominated by complaints of other people's faults and offences, you have to really reconsider if that person is a suitable mate. Isn't it a matter of time before they start quarrelling with you too?

The easiest indicator of how people will treat you is how they treat the majority people they've encountered not how they are treating you now.

If your partner or date is still constantly talking about their ex, is still very angry at them or bitter about their br...
08/09/2019

If your partner or date is still constantly talking about their ex, is still very angry at them or bitter about their breakup, you must beware. They are unresolved and they will most likely bring those issues into your relationship.

Beware of people who are still bitter about the past; angry at their ex(es), still holding grudges against their parents or family members , unforgiving towards friends for past errors ; blaming everyone but themselves for what went wrong without taking personal responsibility for anything.

Be wary about that kind of disposition. All the people who are now 'bad' people were probably 'the best' as you are now. If they can't seem to forgive anyone, especially those who were so close to them, how will they forgive you when you offend them?

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6, Bayo Adesina Magodo Phase 1
Lagos

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00

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+2348062165609

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Our main focus is to help in pre-marital relationships, heal homes and make marital experience blissful and fulfilling.

Over the years we trained and gathered expertise in the field of counselling psychology and marital guidance. Our personnel have wealth of experience, have guided and assisted several families and couples to create marital bliss and peaceful co-existence.

We are based in Lagos, Nigeria and are ready to help you create a successful home using our experience and expertise in counselling. We love to hear from you soon.