04/06/2026
A candidate's CV grabbed my attention last week.
Norland-trained, twelve years of experience, glowing references, First Aid qualified, and enhanced DBS check.
On paper? Absolutely perfect.
But when I called to discuss her availability, here’s what she said:
"I need to be honest. I work best with babies, and I’d prefer a family with no older children for now."
The family I was looking to match her with had a baby AND a 7-year old.
Here's what I see happen all the time.
Families get dazzled by an impressive CV and assume that's everything they need. Norland-trained must be brilliant, right? Many years of experience must mean she's great with all ages?
Not necessarily.
Sometimes the most qualified nanny on paper isn't the right nanny for YOUR family.
Maybe she's excellent with babies but overwhelmed by toddlers.
Maybe she has extensive experience but not with your child's specific age group or developmental stage.
Maybe she's technically brilliant but the chemistry just isn't there.
Or maybe your parenting styles don't align.
A CV tells you what someone has done - it doesn't tell you who she actually is day-to-day.
That's why we built our matching process around understanding not just qualifications, but personality fit, parenting alignment, and genuine compatibility.
During interviews, we ask the questions that matter - not just "how many years of experience do you have?" but "how would you handle bedtime resistance?" and "what's your approach to discipline?"
And we always insist on proper paid trials. Because a full day with your children tells you things no CV ever could.
We've just published a complete guide about the most common mistakes families make when hiring a nanny - and more importantly, how to avoid them. It covers everything from rushing decisions to focusing too much on qualifications and missing the personality fit that actually matters. Read it here: https://www.homebodieslondon.com/post/nanny-interview-mistakes
Parents - have you ever hired a nanny whose CV looked perfect but something just didn't click? What did you learn?
Nannies - what do you wish families understood about looking beyond the CV?