30/03/2026
7 years ago, I lost my dad.
He had an electrical engineering degree and a Master’s degree.
But what always stood out to me wasn’t just his knowledge —
it was what he did next.
At 50 years old, he went back to university to study for a maths degree.
Not because he needed to.
But to show me and my brothers one thing:
“If I can do it at 50, you can do it at your age.”
At the time… I didn’t appreciate it.
I fought it.
I was the creative one — surrounded by mathematicians and scientists — convinced I’d never need maths in my life.
He was also my GCSE and A-Level maths tutor…
which, as you can imagine, came with a few battles.
But he had a gift.
He took students predicted E grades…
and helped them achieve As.
And he took real pride in seeing them succeed.
In his final days, something happened that I’ll never forget.
The doctor who treated him…
was once his student.
Someone he had taught years before —
who came back, full circle, to care for him.
That’s when it really hit me…
the impact you have on people doesn’t end when you think it does.
Fast forward to today.
I’m now sitting at the table with my son, preparing him for his GCSE maths mocks.
And I hear myself saying the same things my dad used to say to me.
The same methods.
The same patience.
The same “this will matter later.”
My son said to me recently:
“I’ll just hire a tutor when I have kids.”
And in that moment, I smiled…
Because I realised —
I’m now sat in my dad’s seat.
And I can almost hear him laughing.
What’s even more ironic…
I built my career thinking I’d escaped maths completely.
Sales. People. Conversations.
Or so I thought.
Today, I specialise in finance recruitment.
And it made me realise something:
You don’t always choose your path. Sometimes it follows you.
The lessons you resist the most…
often become the ones that shape you.
My dad didn’t just teach me maths.
He taught me discipline.
Problem-solving.
And how to stick with something until it makes sense.
And that shows up every day —
in how I work, how I think, and how I help people move forward in their careers.
Legacy isn’t what you leave behind.
It’s what carries forward through others.
And it turns out…
I was listening more than I thought.
Even the illustration is hand drawn — because some things are worth doing yourself