11/03/2026
I was fired from my first job at 17 at a pub...
I have a failed marriage.
I sent a bulk email to a load of clients accidently … weren’t actually mine.
Last year I missed my desired target.
At the time, none of these moments feel great.
But they teach me something important.
Getting things wrong is part of building anything.
What actually holds people back isn’t failure.
It’s the fear of it.
We convince ourselves not to try things because we’re worried about looking stupid, getting it wrong, or having to admit we messed up.
But if you look at the people we admire most, their stories are full of setbacks.
James Dyson built more than 5,000 prototypes before his vacuum finally worked.
Sara Blakely was rejected again and again before Spanx existed.
The difference is they didn’t treat mistakes as the end of the story.
They treated them as part of the process.
When you take risks, sometimes you win.
Sometimes you learn.
But either way you move forward.
And every time something goes wrong and you realise the world didn’t end, you become a little bit braver the next time.
Confidence doesn’t come from everything going perfectly.
It comes from surviving the moments when it doesn’t.
So if you’re hesitating to try something because you’re worried about messing it up…
Remember this:
Failure isn’t the opposite of success.
It’s usually the path that gets you there.
...And guess what I still hustle and I still win and this year will be the best yet and I believe it will be for you too. Just make sure you are in the place where you can win and grow to be your best self.