10/22/2026
๐ฏ You know the colleague who says "Just tell me the bottom line"?
That's often a ๐ด ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐.
In ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ of my series, we're looking at the D style: Dominance. Decisive. Assertive. Wired for results. โก
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๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐'๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ:
๐น Authority to make the call
๐น Clear goals and measurable results
๐น Fast pace and real challenges
๐น Freedom to fix what's broken
๐ซ ๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ:
๐ธ Micromanagement
๐ธ Slow, consensus-only decisions
๐ธ Repetitive detail work with no end goal
๐ธ Responsibility without authority
๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐ณ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ ๐'๐ ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐๐๐น๐ฒ: general management, operations leadership, entrepreneurship, sales leadership, turnaround and change roles, and in tech, incident response leads, security program directors, and CISOs.
โ ๏ธ ๐ฆ๐ถ๐ด๐ป๐ ๐ฎ ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐: constant frustration with "process," boredom within months of mastering a role, and friction with leaders who want every step approved.
๐ฅ ๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐'๐: give them the outcome, not the steps. Hand them a hard problem and the authority to solve it. Coach the blind spots, which tend to be impatience and bluntness under pressure.
๐ค ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐'๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ ๐? Most people are a blend, and your work style may differ from your natural style. That's exactly what a assessment sorts out.
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๐๐ผ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ง๐๐ฒ๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐: ๐ก the High I, the style that gets its energy from people.
Are you a D, or do you work with one? Tell me in the comments. ๐