Custom Care & Accommodation

26/10/2026

A change in someone’s behaviour? Before assuming it’s “just dementia,” remember the 5 Ps:

🩹 Pain — could something be hurting?
💊 Pills — could medication or a missed dose be affecting them?
🚽 P*e — could they need the toilet, or have signs of a urinary problem?
💩 Poo — could constipation or discomfort be the cause?
🩺 Pus — could there be a wound or infection?

It’s a simple reminder to pause and look for a possible physical cause. Changes in behaviour can be someone’s way of telling us that something isn’t right.

Notice the change, check what you can, and share your concerns with the appropriate health professional.

25/10/2026

Grief can begin while the person you love is still here.

As dementia progresses, conversations, familiar routines and parts of your relationship may change. It can bring sadness, frustration and mixed emotions—and those feelings are valid.

You can miss what has changed while still finding ways to connect and share meaningful moments now. You don’t have to go through it alone.

17/10/2026

Dementia affects everyone differently, so the way we support each person needs to be thoughtful, patient and personal.

In my videos, I share practical things I’ve learned through working in dementia care—small ways we can better understand, reassure and connect with the person behind the diagnosis.

What’s something you’d like me to talk about next?

16/10/2026

When a person living with dementia calls you by the wrong name, it doesn’t always mean they don’t know who you are.

They may still recognise you through the way you care for them, the comfort they feel around you, or the familiar things you do together. Sometimes, it’s their actions and connection with you that show they know who you are, even when the name doesn’t come to mind.

Focus on the connection, not just the name. 💙

12/10/2026

No matter what your role is, we all have a part to play.

Being a leader doesn’t mean you’re above rolling up your sleeves and helping where it’s needed. Every role matters, and sometimes the best way to support your team is to work alongside them.

We’re all here for the same reason: to provide the best support we can. 💜

12/10/2026

For many people living with dementia, connection can happen through more than words. A favourite song, a familiar rhythm or the gentle company of an animal can create a lovely moment to share. 🎶🐾

So when Neon Moon comes on, we make room for a little dancing, a few smiles and some four-legged friends. Everyone can join in their own way—whether that’s dancing, tapping along or simply enjoying the music together. 🤠

10/10/2026

Travelling with someone living with dementia can take a little extra planning, but it doesn’t mean you have to give up on making special memories together. ❤️

A good place to start is with a routine that feels familiar and manageable. Try a local outing or a short holiday first, see what works for your family, and build from there. If that goes well, you may feel more prepared to plan a bigger trip even an international one.

Keep the person at the centre of the plans, allow time to rest, and be ready to adjust along the way. Every person and every trip is different.

Have you travelled with someone living with dementia? What helped make the experience easier?

07/10/2026

07/10/2026

Routines can make a real difference when someone is living with dementia. Familiar parts of the day can offer comfort and make things feel more predictable—but every person is different, and routines may need to change from day to day.

In this video, I’m sharing a few thoughts on why routine matters and how we can keep it personal, gentle and flexible.

What familiar routine seems to help your loved one feel more settled? I’d love to hear from you.